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최근 재미있게 보고 있는 방송이다.
일요일에 교회, 과외 봉사활동 끝내고 무한도전을 보고 난후 보는 프로그램

둘다 프로그램 재밌지만
언제부터인가 (저번주 부터였나?) 끝나면서 엔딩에 성우분이 의미있는 말 한마디씩 읽어준다
오늘은 웃음에 대한 내용이었다
전문을 소개해 본다.


아무리 힘들어도 희망을 가져야 합니다
아무리 힘들어도 웃어야 합니다
눈물이 베개에 배어 잠을 자는 순간에도 웃어야 합니다

웃음속에 희망이 있기 때문입니다.

웃어라 대한민국이여
웃어라 아줌마 들이여
웃어라 아저씨 들이여
웃어라 노총각, 노처녀 들이여
웃어라 수험생, 취업 준비생 들이여
웃어라 고독한 이들이여

웃고있어도 눈물이 난다고요?
그래도 웃어야 합니다
그래야 행복이라는 여정이 다가옵니다


  
그렇다. 힘들어도 웃어야 한다.

이 글을 쓰는 나도 지금도 힘들지만
이때까지 오기까지 더 힘들었다
(다들 생각하는 그런 힘듬이 아니다. 자세한건 나중에 글로 소개할게요)
그럴때마다 난 웃었다. 
그리고 앞으로도 계속 웃을 것이다.

마지막으로 웃음효과 즉, the smile effect에 관한 글을 소개하면서 글을 마칠까 합니다
 

Smiles is one of the greatest gift that God have ever deposited into the emotional reservoir of mankind, but it is shocking and alarming that we allow such a valuable endowment to waste away every blessed day.

Lots of individual would have change their situation and atmosphere if they can wear a little bit of smile everyday. Smiles are one of the greatest means of communication, yet the amazing and incredible thing about it is that it can be gotten and used at no cost!


What is smile?

Before we begin to analyze some of the powerful effects of smiles, I think it will be helpful for us to understand the meaning of this power means of communication known as smile.

Smile is said to be a facial expression in which the corners of the mouth are raised, usually expressing amusement, pleasure, or approval.

We are going to be looking at some of the amazing things that we can easily accomplish with our free and simple but yet a dynamic smile. You will be startle at what you can do with your smile or rather what your smile would do for you.


Effects of Smile.

The following are the effects of smiles:

1. Make an individual approachable.
The first you will be able to achieve without stress with your smile is the ability to be approachable. Have you noticed that when you give a little smile, especially to a person you are meeting for the first time, it prompts such a fellow to open up and want to relate with you?

The reason for this is quite simple, it is because your smiles is telling the other person that you are an interesting person to be around with, and tell me who doesn’t want to be around a happy fellow?

I personally discovered this to be true. Human are emotional being, and we most times talk through our emotions than gestures, verbal or any other means of communication that we might have available or would rather want to use.

And there is something interesting about this, it gives you the opportunity to connect emotionally to the person you are communicating with, the emotional bonding found in this kind of act is very influential and commanding.

So, giving away some smiles will boost your image and personality, which would want everyone to be around you. Why don’t you give it a trial and see the effect.

2. It improves your physiognomy.

There is a saying that goes like this "I have never seen a smiling face that is not beautiful".

This is exceptionally true and factual. I also personally discovered that smiling make me look more handsome that I would ordinarily look.

This explains the reason why actors, model and influential people do express some bit of smile; this is quite powerful and effective. One powerful effect that smiles will have on you is to improve or uplift that facial expression or yours.

Check this out, try to remember those people that you consider ugly and unattractive, you will notice they look more eye-catching and striking when they wear just a simple smile. The reason is not far fetched, this is the same principle we have discovered and it is simple. A smile improves your physiognomy!

3. Changes your Atmosphere.
This is very effective and powerful. Do you know you can drastically change your atmosphere through a simple smile? This is might sound easy and cheap, but I tell you, it’s quite incredible as this aspect have been utilized without much notice and awareness.

Do you remember finding yourself in an unpleasant, obnoxious and horrible situation? And possibly by chance you stumble on something that stimulates that unused effective communicative tool in you, how do you feel thereafter when you released that idyllic smile, you feel relaxed and fulfilled.

That is exactly what a simple smile can do for you. It gives you an opportunity to re-create your atmosphere at will. This is quite interesting, this implies that you can easily place yourself right there in your own world of pleasure and bliss, and guess what you can achieve this without any formal training and it’s absolutely free of charge!

4. Make somebody’s day.
Another powerful thing you can achieve with you smiles is making somebody’s day, and I bet it you will never be forgotten for simple that act.

Looking around your neighborhood, office or even your home you will discover that there are lots of people that are desperately stressed and need some sort of encouragement to move on, those individuals awaits your smile to make their day. You never can tell the power and effects of your smile on such individual until you extend your smile to them.

I have lots of people tell me that they would have made more imparts on their society if only they have sufficient funds. Some even conclude that they would have loved to give but they do not have money to do just that.

But I bet to that there is something you have that can be given at will, and that is your smiles. You can make much impart by just smiling towards an individual today. And as you would realize that this cost you nothing except you willingness and your interest.

By sending out that smile, what you are doing is that, you are telling the person that he is worth your attention and time even though it is petite and short. Merely giving an attention to smile or return a smile is a great thing that could ever happen to an individual. So by doing that you are already making an impart that is more than having a fund. Because at times you might run out of funds, but never can run out of smiles!

So, why don’t you make somebody’s day through your smile? They are waiting just for that smile of yours to motivate them to the next level. You will everly be grateful you did.

Here are simple steps yet powerful enough to cause a change in somebody’s life. I believe you will experience transformation as you involve yourself in this exercise.

Just like fellow said "Dale Carnegie, in his book How to Win Friends and Influence People, best summed up the lasting impacts of a smile: "It costs nothing, but creates much. It enriches those who receive, without impoverishing those who give. It happens in a flash and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever".


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글 쓰기 앞서
'새로운 것은 언제나 신나게' 님의 블로그
에서 사진 슬라이드 쇼에서 모든 것을 얻었다

이글은 단지 슬라이드 쇼를 글로 옮긴것일뿐
그래도 내가 이것을 적는 이유는?
뭐 나중에 내가 PPT 준비할때 파워포인트나( 맥북이 있다면 keynote로) 발표준비를
할텐데 그때 미리 읽어두면 좋을 것 같아서 이렇게 적어둔다.

버뜨, 처음부터 내용을 적었던게 아니라 도중에 적어서 앞부분은 좀 부족하다

ACT1. CREATE THE STORY

"You've got to find what you love,
going to bed at night, saying I've done something wonderful
That's what mattered"
                                                   -steve jobs-

-Plan in Analog
-Create Twitter-like Headlines
-Introduce the Antagonist

ACT2. DELIVER THE EXPERIENCE

-Eliminate clutter
"simplicitiy is the ultimate sophistication"

-No bullet points
Averate PPT slide : 40 words

-Picture Superiority Effect (PSE)
"The ideas are more likely to be remembered if they are presented as pictures  
 instead of words or pictures paired with words."

-Simplify the complex information
-Dress up numbers
-Reveal a Holy Shit Moment

"people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did,
but people never forget how you made them feel.


ACT3. REFINE AND REHEARSE

"Every slides was written like a piece of poetry"

-Master stage presence
: Eye contact, Open posture, Hand gesture

-Practice
"His sence of informality comes after grueling hours of practice "

-Quality and Excellence
-Wear the Appropriate Costume

ONE MORE THING

-Have a fun!!

"You're time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life.
Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the result of other people's thnking.
Don't let the noise of other's opinions down out
You're own inner voice

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Hello! 2010!!

from 소소한 일상 2010.01.02 02:04
2010년 새해가 밝았다
경신년 호랑이해 이다.
어! 나 호랑이띠 인데 웬지 기분 좋은 해가 될듯.

버뜨, 어제 새벽3시에 잤는데
오늘 오후 3시에 일어나버렸네 뭐 새해 첫날을 늦잠으로 보내버렸네 -_-

뭐 그래도 오늘 일 안가서
일어나서 컴퓨터좀 하다가 샀던 '왜 노무현은 조선일보와 싸우는가' 라는 책을
거의 읽어버렸다.

저녁에 잉여짓좀 하고
휴~ 아무튼 2010년의 하루는 이렇게 지나갔다

아! 2010년에 꼭 하고 싶거나 할 일들 적어놓자
이글을 2010년 마지막날은 이 리스트를  읽으면서 했던 일이나 하지 못한일을 보면서
나에게 칭찬 또는 반성을 하는 시간을 가지면 좋을 듯 싶네.

1. 책 50권 이상 읽기

2. 뭐든 상관없다 장학금 타기!

3. 여자친구 만들기 and 스키장 가기

4. 교환학생 가기 위한 토플 점수

5. 2번을 위한 학점 4.0 이상 획득

일단 5개는 적어놓고 생각날 때마다 추가해서 적어봐야지

반갑다! 2010년아! 잘 지내보자~

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어제 성탄예배 마치고
크리스마스때 애들 한번 볼까 해서 연락해서
오늘 수정이 빼고 서희,정희랑 신촌서 봤다

기대를 저버리지 않고
역시나 두명은 제 시간에 도착하지 않고
늦어주었다 대단하네... 몇년이 지났지만 늦는건 여전하다

어쨋든 만나서
일단 먹을 곳을 찾아서 두리번 거리다가 결국은 낙지먹으로 갔다
가서 낙지+오징어 튀김+오뎅탕 세트요리 먹고
나는 맥주가 먹고 싶어서 맥주하나 먹고
(낙지를 먹는건지 오징어를 먹는건지 혀가 구분을 못했다 -_-)

먹고 커피먹고 포켓볼 치고
아! 포켓볼 치기전에 정희의 몸개그가 있었군ㅋㅋㅋ
정희 알바하는 곳에 가서 커피+내가 원하던 케익(버뜨, 너무 달았다) 먹고나서
빠빠이 했다 정희는 오늘 알바가 신종플루(보이는 거짓말)걸렸다 해서 땜빵하고

서희랑 신촌까지 와서 헤어졌다
주머니에서 돈이 나가서 슬프긴 하지만 집에서 쓸쓸히 보내는 크리스보다는
즐거운 크리스마스 이었다(눈까지 내리니깐 화이트 크리스마스 인가?)

다음은 언제 볼지 모르겠지만
각자의 위치에서 열심히 살고 건강하게 살기를 기도한다

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1주일동안 한게 뭔지... 아르바이트 찾고
영화보고 뭐 한것도 없다...

이제 블로그를 시작하려고 한다
내가 뭐 전문가도 아니고 공부도 잘 하는 것도 아니지만
다른사람 신경안쓰고
내 생각을 여기에 마음대로 쓸려고 한다

뭐 관리 같은것도 잘해야 겠지...
아무튼 틈틈히 해보자


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